“Never interrupt your enemy when he is making a mistake.”
Napoleon Bonaparte As quoted in As quoted in The Military Quotation Book (2002) pg. 93
I beg to differ …
Letting your enemy make a mistake is probably a very wise thing when you are in a hostile or adversarial situation. If you are at war, mistakes lead to victories … you just hope the mistakes are always made by the other side.
How does this work when your “enemy” is simply someone with whom you are in competition or maybe just someone who comes from a different culture, country, or part of town?
Is mercy shown to an opponent considered a sign of weakness or ultimate strength?
The reverse interpretation of Bonaparte’s sentiment is that you should let your friends know when they are making a mistake. Personally I like this aspect much more. However, this still misses an important point.
Having an enemy automatically makes you their enemy. They are watching you, hoping you screw up, so they can take advantage. Doesn’t feel so good, when you consider the other perspective, does it?
Is this how most of us live our daily lives? Is this how we want to live our lives?
Semantics are important. If you speak in the language of war, you will approach life as a battle.
An open hand, extended to help, cannot hold a sword.
I do not have a long list of strategies or possible choices here. Just gonna leave you with another quotation to consider. In my opinion, it gives us a better option:
“Do unto others as you would have them do unto you.”
Make your enemies into your allies. Even better, make them friends. Who know, you might just help change the world, or at least your corner of it.
Considering the possibilities of peaceful co-existence in the Heartland ….
John
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