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Diving … … and we will be forever like a diver on the end of the board, hovering at the edge of action, waiting for the wind to die down, or the water to calm, or his heart to stop racing, or the stars to align, or …

As a young leader, one of the catchiest phrases I learned and shared was “Ready, Fire, Aim”.   This dry comment  was often on the lips of some of my earliest mentors.  They  were commenting deftly on the tendency by enthusiastic and inexperienced folks to act before they were really prepared  and with  “suboptimal” knowledge.  I have experienced some who felt that “real” leadership required prompt, if blind action.

Well, we all know what happens to folks who leap before they look, don’t we?

However, the other side of the coin is equally problematic, as Turgenev reminds us.

Some of us never have enough to actually act.  We need to gather more information, explore more alternatives, consider more possibilities.

We search for the perfect combination of time, place, people, events, situations, the weather, and anything else which might possibly affect our final commitment to a course of action.

… and of course, we always see one more piece of information, evidence, or proof in the distance … just give us a little more time …

I have no magic formula to help you determine where the sweet spot is between prudent research and preparation on the one hand and indecisive dithering on the other.

Just remember that both extremes come from valid needs:

The need to know what you are getting into …

The need to feel comfortable with your readiness …

The need to act …

Well, at least now I have reminded you that neither extreme is where you want to be, so hopefully your radar will be working to keep you in the middle:  prepared, ready, and doing.

Trying real hard to take my own advice in the Heartland ….

John

Musings on This Time of Year …


Autumn 2014

Yes … it is THAT TIME of year again in the Heartland and elsewhere.

What is it about Autumn and the very visible changing of the seasons that tends to inspire us?

Some do not look forward to winter, with its freezing temperatures, absence of green, and “wintry mix” weather forecasts.  

Some regret the last fading traces of shorts n’ tee-shirt weather as the days slowly or sometimes abruptly cool.

Some are oblivious to nature’s changes, spending lives and energy encased in windowless captivity and experiencing the weather in temporary brief flashes, as we run from houses to cars to buildings to planes and back again.

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Some both regret what is past and have concern for the future … as this is regarding the weather, so it may be with life …

Maybe it is because this is the time when change is most obvious.  We often slip from one phase of life to the next, barely noticing the movement until we take time to reflect. 

This is our time to stop, observe, and reflect on what is happening … a curious combination of mindfulness of the present, along with awareness of both what is over and what is yet to occur.

Just don’t miss it completely by remaining submerged in the daily routine, the deadlines and crises, the distracting and the

Stop … Take Some Time … Get Outside …

Breathe in Autumn deeply, with the slight chill in the air and the riot of colors, with the quiet breezes and the stiff winds … experience the variations.

Go by yourself and be by yourself …  be alone with your thoughts.

Layer your clothes and adjust as you need to, because the temperature can vary from every day into every night … keep yourself comfortable.

Let your mind go of whatever you were engaged in and allow your thoughts to wander … you won’t get lost.

Autumn 2014 2Now think about your thoughts …

Consider where your thoughts go and what they reveal to you … this may be the most enjoyable crystal ball you can access.

This is not really just an ode to Autumn, although I truly treasure this time of year.  This is about taking time to reflect and enjoy being in the moment, which we need to regularly do, until it becomes second nature and no longer requires conscious thought.

Tell me how you are enjoying this season…

Remembering that mindfulness and reflection can occur anywhere and any time, especially in the Heartland …

John

 

 

 

I Already Knew That …


Button and SignatureBill Treasurer was the keynoter at the ATD ST. Louis Conference held yesterday.  He is also the author of a powerful leadership development book: Leaders Open Doors

I already knew the stories …

I knew that Speedos would be discussed, since I know Bill’s diving background , although I was not ready for the video that reminded me of something Bill and I share:  a fear of heights. 

I hoped that he should share the story of how his son inspired the title and direction of his book and he did so.  

I expected to hear about his daughter and how her courage drives him … but I did not expect the reward of a video showing her courage and spirit, which made me mist up just a little.  

Sometimes the smallest among us are the most courageous and insightful.

I already read The Book

I knew that trust would be lifted up as an essential ingredient of positive leadership interactions.  

I knew that Bill would talk about the strongest opportunities and greatest change coming from when we are uncomfortable, as people and as leaders.

I knew that the point would be made and remade that we exist as leaders to help others survive, grow, and thrive.  He never uses the phrase “servant leadership”, but he talks it with every sentence.

Okay, I learned a little something …

I knew Bill was smart and humorous, but I did not know how enjoyable his presentation would be.   I have experienced other best-selling authors, whose delivery in person was … shall we say “restrained”.  Okay, let’s be honest and just say “boring” and on one occasion “stultifying”.

I learned that Bill understands how to create energy through sprightly pacing and interaction with his audience. He makes the time pass without effort and the learning just flows, almost without being noticed. 

What I got from hearing Bill Treasurer speak in person: 

A little blue button that says “Be Courageous”, a nice note on a page in The Book, and an abiding respect for his ability to speak from the heart, engage effectively with others, and bring real value to us.

Possibly the highest compliment I can pay Bill Treasurer is that I took few notes and tweeted only once or twice at the beginning of his presentation.  My usual mode is to busily share on various social media networks while taking copious notes of pearls of wisdom being dropped by a speaker … Bill motivated me to just stop what I was doing, listen to him, and soak it up. 

I believe I got more out of doing exactly that than my normal mode … do I detect a behavior change coming?

BOTTOM LINE: 

If you ever have the opportunity to hear Bill speak, take it in a heartbeat.  Change your schedule, break open the piggy bank, take a sick day if you have to, but do not miss the opportunity to breathe the same air and interact with him.

I guarantee you will not regret it.

Still feeling smug about a morning well spent (even with traffic) in the Heartland ….

John

 

 

ABOUT BILL TREASURER

Leaders Open DoorsBill Treasurer is chief encouragement officer (CEO) of Giant Leap Consulting and the author of Courage Goes to Work, an international best-seller that introduced the new management practice of courage-building.

For over two decades Treasurer has designed leadership and succession programs for clients such as NASA, Saks Fifth Avenue, UBS Bank, CNN, Hugo Boss, the CDC, the Pittsburgh Pirates, and the U.S. Veterans Administration. Prior to Giant Leap, Treasurer was an executive Accenture, a $29 billion management consulting firm. He became Accenture’s first full-time executive coach.

Treasurer is a former captain of the US High Diving Team, a cancer survivor, and the father of three children. He is a champion for the rights of people with disabilities, which includes his daughter.

A Few More Words About “Leaders Open Doors” by Bill Treasurer


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Additional comments about a book I really like, if you missed all the hoopla last week:

“Leaders are most effective when they elevate people to a higher standard of performance by opening many doors of opportunity.

Adopting an opportunity focus means viewing challenges as things to be expected, valued, and embraced.

Moving others toward opportunity, however, also mean purposefully nudging them out of comfort zones.

Opportunities are uncomfortable things, and open-door leaders help people and organizations grow to the extent that they inspire them to do the uncomfortable.” 

The above quote is just one of many that I have pulled out of Leaders Open Doors by Bill Treasurer, since it first appeared on my radar just about a year ago. He writes clearly and effectively about leadership from a distinctly open, human, and ultimately very collaborative viewpoint, which jives nicely with my thinking.

The updated version now available includes a new foreword and some stories at the end from people who have found value in this book. The stories are real and they illustrate the power of this little volume.

Two things really stand out and make me happy to suggest this book to anyone who wants to improve their ability to lead others through serving them.

First Bill really gets leadership on a very personal level.

His examples come from real life and he includes both some triumphs and some “fall on your face” failures from his own leadership journey. Read this book and you will learn some things about how to be a leader who is there for others.

No lofty discussions of strategy or corporate structure here, just a simple formula that involves being aware of the needs of those with whom you work and creating a culture where you fill those needs. Everyone wins.

… and he does all this in a highly positive manner … the guy emanates energy.

Second, Bill is one of the “Good Guys”.

The proceeds from his book sale go to help children with special needs. This is a cause near and dear to his heart and to mine. A group of us have adopted a BHAG (that’s “Big Hairy Audacious Goal” for those of you who are not fluent in bizspeak): $50, 000 raised through sales of this book in the next year. 

This is a very good thing to do and I like to support doing good things, but we need your help to make this a reality.

Frankly, I cannot think of a better combination:

Become a more effective servant leader and help children with special needs at the same time.

Buy and read this book, use this book to improve your leadership abilities, and share this book with those in your circle of influence – you will be a better person for doing so.

Continuing to enjoy the value in Leaders Open Doors in the Heartland ….

John

ABOUT BILL TREASURER

Leaders Open DoorsBill Treasurer is chief encouragement officer (CEO) of Giant Leap Consulting and the author of Courage Goes to Work, an international best-seller that introduced the new management practice of courage-building.

For over two decades Treasurer has designed leadership and succession programs for clients such as NASA, Saks Fifth Avenue, UBS Bank, CNN, Hugo Boss, the CDC, the Pittsburgh Pirates, and the U.S. Veterans Administration. Prior to Giant Leap, Treasurer was an executive Accenture, a $29 billion management consulting firm. He became Accenture’s first full-time executive coach.

Treasurer is a former captain of the US High Diving Team, a cancer survivor, and the father of three children. He is a champion for the rights of people with disabilities, which includes his daughter.

 

 

Updated Disclaimer: Yes, I received a copy of this book for review.  As always, my comments represent my honest and unbiased assessment of the book’s value for others.   I continue to recommend and gift this book to those interested in becoming better leaders.